Many wonder what type of people come to a Psychic Medium, and Why, and I can tell you the vast majority of who come are professional individuals. Everyone from Doctors, Lawyers, investment Bankers, to moms and dads, retired school teachers. They are wives and husbands, brothers or sisters, friends and lovers. They are Aunts and Uncles, nieces and nephews; they are family, and even a few Politicians.

Family isn’t always the ones we are born into; they are the ones we choose to be in our lives, to share unconditional love, who offer love and support regardless of what happens on our journey. The fact is, we stumble, and we may even make mistakes, and we all have short comings. Uncles who take on the role of father, Grandmothers who mother, regardless of the title, the love energy is still the same.

People are searching for answers, sometimes solutions while other times it is for confirmation of what they already know. Messages from Spirit restore faith, bring about peace and offer closure to some who are experiencing the darkest moments of their lives.

So while I am a Psychic Medium, I offer so much more than what you think by the limiting descriptive title of Psychic Medium. I keep the sessions surrounded by God and the Angels, I do not call on the dead, but I allow your Guardian Angels to escort your dearly departed to me, to pass on any healing messages, instructions, or requests they might have.

The human body, like anything holds energy, and as a result we can experience blockages that prevent us from moving forward in life, emotions that stand in your way from feeling whole and oneness. This can be from your current life experience, or from a lingering past life, but more often than not it can be passed down from generation to generation, it’s in your very DNA.

Let me explain, I do not mean its inherent that you are sensitive based on your genetic coding, not exactly; I am talking about cellular memory. It’s ingrained in you, like a tire track after the rain; it leaves traces of where you’ve been for miles. Making it easy to see who’s come on gone leaving evidence behind. The same is true for you, and how you not only view the world, but some of your patterns and experiences.

So to get to the bottom of blockages or self defeating behaviours, we have to look at where you have come from, past environments, and see what’s yours, and what doesn’t belong to you, in order for you to have the life you deserve and desire.

Now that we have identified the source of blocked energy, through my healing sessions, I work closely with your Guides, Guardian Angels, a Host of Ascended Masters, and of course our Creator. During a session you may feel others touching you, see Angels, who are assisting me with the healing process, and you will feel the changes happening as the energy leaves your body you are filled with peace, love and a euphoric sensation as the Angels elevate you and free you from the ties that bind you.

Your system will purge over the next few days, this is normal and it will feel similar to the flu, only the effects are much more enlightening than that of being ill. You may feel less pain, things may look brighter, and your friends will see a visible difference when you walk into a room. Each session energy lasts usually about a week, but at first 4 or 5 days depending on your individual circumstances, but if it doesn’t last the full week, I can send out a boost of energy, which you will experience the same sensations you did during the session, this includes distance healing. The majority of my clients are distance work, from as far as Hawaii, to California and as Far East as Toronto.

There are many miracles that happen as a result of a healing session, not only are lives changed, but other miracles take place, there is the physical pain that leaves the body, the Miracle of Birth, healing complications during Pregnancy, unexplained infertility usually has something to do with blocked energy, Grieving Loved ones and financial blocks, healing from the devastation of a break up, or learning your spouse has a entire different life... While some wake up into their own natural healing abilities, and flow into their lightbody into a life of service, and let’s not forget those furry four legged friends, I have worked on dogs and cats, and once a fish if you can imagine....

You are asked to do some homework, for continued support from your Angels and healing, by changing your diet, how you speak towards yourself and others, Changing defeating thought patterns by keeping a journal, Meditation, exercise and limiting your intake of Alcohol, Drugs and sugary foods, but also how much free time you spend watching television. Here are some comments from real live people who have used my services for Healing, and Readings, both Psychic and Mediumship.

Anger...

It is normal to feel angry towards our loved one for leaving us alone to face the world without them, but what about them? Do they feel Anger? They absolutely can, and can experience their Anger in many different ways.Life looks different on the other side, and while yes, they do feel anger, they do tend to come to a deeper understanding, sometimes rapidly due to the choice they make to understand their passing, and come to terms with their life choices, as well as their freedom to evolve, and to share a new, deeper understanding with you, whom they love so dearly.In the first few moments, its been my experience especially those of sudden deaths, like suicides or homicides, that they are to say the least, a bit angry. They are mad mostly at themselves for some of the life choices, unless on rare occasion, their family member has done wrong by them and has had some part in their decline.

One such time, I was on call for a biohazard cleanup crew, and received a call in the early evening to meet in the neighbouring town, as there had been a reported suicide by shotgun. I met my crew on location of a prestigious home. The air filled with an ominous presence of doom, lingering in the air like a thick blanket cloaking the street, filling us all with regret and sadness.As we arrived, the coroners were transporting the body into the ambulance, walking beside them was the man’s distraught daughter, muttering in disbelief.

Eventually, another family member arrived, and came over to me to thank me for being there to assist with the process of cleaning up their beloved father, who had taken his life after a massive stroke in one room, while his wife, lay on her recliner dying of bone cancer. Life for them in this moment was overwhelming, so much so he being his wife’s soul care giver saw no other way but to take his own life... The daughter, still standing beside me, sobbing quietly, I gave her an understand glance, and passed her a tissue, when she cleared her throat and asked me a very tough question. “How can you do this”? Pausing briefly before continuing, “Don’t get me wrong, I am more than grateful for your strength and courage to be here”, I moved closer to her, to offer my comfort, and said “I do this to offer a different side of compassion”. She reached out squeezing my hand. Over by the door, stood the other sister, who seemed a bit off, strange in the way of her reaction to be a bit out of place.

As the family, finally able to make their way off the property, we could begin the daunting task, of cleaning. As we prepped the house to begin, I could hear him banging around, and shouting. His Spirit came out of the room, and down the hall, now standing in front of me, I could see him as he was when he felt a bit more together. He adjusted his glasses, and said to me, “do you know, that she handed me the gun”? I raised my eyebrows, as he continued, thinking I couldn’t hear him. She was always bugging me for money, running our business into the ground, taking her mother’s pain pills, she thought I didn’t notice, but I did”. “I am sorry this has happened to you, can I help you in anyway” I questioned. A wave of anger rushed over me, causing me to feel dizzy, and called on my Angels to give me strength and protect me.

He ranted for about 3 hours, of his family dynamics and his situation. He was mad, he couldn’t save his wife, he was angry he fell ill, and he was angry mostly that he lost all control, having an overwhelming sense of sadness wash over me, what was I to do with all of this information? When he spoke up as though he could hear my thoughts, and said nothing, you can do nothing but pray for my wife to go quickly, and tell her I will be there when it’s all over.I was never able to tell his wife his message, due to the sensitive nature of the circumstances, I did however, ask her guardian Angels to intervene on my behalf, and send her the message in a manner it would be received well. For me personally, I don’t believe in making people feel uncomfortable, nor did I want to cause their family undue pain, as they had already been through so much.

That moment changed how I understood death, and my gifts, I gained respect for the Spirit, as I understood that they go through the same stages we do, and let me tell you it’s intense, just as intense as it is for you, and for me.A few short weeks later, He came back for a short visit, thanking me for being there in his darkest moments, and that he found his peace.

He said Life looks differently over there, and he gained insight into his life, and the dynamics, he also reported that his wife received the messages through a dream, but had not yet joined him.For us left behind, it can take years for that same understanding, trust the process, and know that you are so loved, and the last thing your loved ones want to do is cause you pain. They wish you peace, love and understanding. They want you to know they are still with you, for as long as it takes for you to make your way through this very important stage. You need to see, in order to understand, and you are a result of thought, and as a result you experience all that you are, because of your thoughts.

So once you are able to work past this uncomfortable part of feeling Angry, but it will take as long as it takes because this is your journey and you are allowed all the time it takes you, but remember do not stay here too long, for you have important work ahead of you.

.ma

The five stages, denial, anger, bargaining, depression and acceptance...

These are all a part of the healing process after the loss of a loved one. People say that you will get over it, but the truth is, you don’t get over it, you get through it....

We learn to live life without their physical presence in our lives... These are tools to help map out and cope with how you may be feeling, which makes up our learning to live with the one we lost.

As the Healing continues, there are some linear timeline in the stages of Grief from a Medium’s Perspective...

Denial...

Loss is hard to believe, and even harder to accept ... one moment, they are here and tomorrow wasn’t promised... In a blink of an eye everything has changed...

“I can’t believe they are gone”

Is often be heard in the echo’s of the wind... how can things change so drastically from one minute to the next , and while this is true for all of those who are left behind, this is also true for the newly departed. “Am I really dead”? “Is my life as I knew it gone”? How can this be?

They are often just as confused as those they left behind on this earth plane. I can remember one such experience of a Spirit, who was in complete denial, she had recently passed on a few short days prior to our session. Her mother had booked in desperate to hear from her daughter, who had suddenly passed away. That morning she left her healthy, sound and whole, and when she returned from work, she was gone... I sat with the mother, as the daughter spoke about things that needed to improve, aspirations of travel and school abroad, after all she was 21, and had all the answers...

She was coming through with the same energy as though she was still alive and while her mother was able to confirm everything that was coming through as they were conversations they previously had... She seemed confused, and even more upset than when she first sat down, when mother politely interrupted, and said “ she passed away three days ago”... with those words uttered, the spirit of the young girl, transformed and with drew, she was now wearing a hoody, and sweatpants, with the hood covering her face, which she later explained she why she was wearing this... and as she spoke understanding of her passing came with great reluctance... describing her room, and the scene of the crime, and the cause of death, confirming her mother’s suspicions...

The girl was saddened by the realization that she was no longer on this earth plane... and as I met with the mother over the months to come, I watched them both come to accept her time on earth was complete. The process for them over the coming months, was about 18 months, while others can take longer, depending on the willingness of everyone involved. Its been my experience that those who have completed their time on this earth, and left naturally, tend to be far more accepting, and often make a quick transition after saying their good byes and parting messages.

No matter the length of time it takes, its yours alone to make, and while I always encourage people to take their time, I also encourage you not to take too much time, because it can take you down a slippery slope, one which is hard to return from.

The great news is that while they may be physically absent from your lives, they are very much present, if you listen, and are open to the signs in which they communicate with you, while some rattle the pots and pans, others flicker the lights, turn things on and off as electricity is the easiest things to manipulate, but they come through in a manner which you are comfortable with, so if you are not comfortable seeing granny sitting at your bedside, she will come to you in a manner that you can handle like, leaving the tea cup out she gave you, or filling up the room with a scent that’s familiar to her, that you would know it’s her coming through...

They come through in many ways, like with coins, feathers, and other strange things. But none of that happens until you can see your way through denial...

In next week’s Newsletter, we will talk about the second stage of Anger, in this series of 5, on the Stages of Greif...